Narcissism: Why Labeling People Is a Dangerous Thing – Part 3
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Narcissism: Why Labeling People Is a Dangerous Thing – Part 3

Society is fond of labeling people. Ists and phobes abound. Driven largely by the media, these labels relegate individuals and groups of people to the realm of unimportance. If, for example, you’ve been assigned the narcissism label, you are usually perceived as having no redeeming qualities. You’re someone others should avoid at all costs. Your…

Narcissism: Healthy Narcissism Vs Narcissistic Disorder – Part 2
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Narcissism: Healthy Narcissism Vs Narcissistic Disorder – Part 2

“I was married to a narcissist,” a woman says of her ex. “The President is a narcissist,” the pundit proclaims. What is a narcissist and why do we hear that term tossed around so loosely today when it is technically a psychiatric diagnosis? First, let’s look at where the term came from. Narcissus was a…

Narcissism Vs. Narcissistic Traits – Part 1
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Narcissism Vs. Narcissistic Traits – Part 1

We hear the term narcissist thrown around a lot these days. You hear your neighbor say her mother-in-law is a narcissistic. You hear your best friend say her ex-spouse is a narcissist. Perhaps you’ve heard your family member call his boss a narcissist. Rarely are any of these people given a professional diagnosis. It’s usually…

How Couples Can Support Each Other During the Holidays
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How Couples Can Support Each Other During the Holidays

Are you dreading family get-togethers this holiday season? Are you bracing yourself for holiday stress? Strained relationships or family dysfunction can suck the joy out of your holidays. In this video segment, Dr Linda Miles talks about how couples can support each other during the hectic holidays. Family dynamics during the holidays can be taxing….

How to Tell If The Person You’re Dating Is Rebounding
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How to Tell If The Person You’re Dating Is Rebounding

Rebounding often has a negative connotation, but rebounding is not necessarily negative. Relationships may end making us better or bitter. Over three decades as a licensed and marriage and family therapist, I have watched many people end relationships and move on to make healthier choices. The definition of rebound refers to an object hitting a…

Slaying the Green-Eyed Dragon: A Lesson in Jealousy
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Slaying the Green-Eyed Dragon: A Lesson in Jealousy

Do you discuss problems in your relationship with friends or family instead of with your partner? Do you often find yourself feeling or acting judgmental towards your partner? Do you allow negative feelings—about your partner or relationship—to fester, and discover that they are ignited or further fueled by conversations with friends and family? WHEN JEALOUSY…

Marriage: How to Remain The Best of Lovers and The Best of Friends
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Marriage: How to Remain The Best of Lovers and The Best of Friends

Are you getting married? Or newly married? Have you wondered, “How do we remain the best of lovers and the best of friends after we’re married? Is it possible for us to stay in love for decades? Can our love last? Can we live our dreams and still live in reality?” The answer is yes,…

How to Consciously Choose the Right Partner
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How to Consciously Choose the Right Partner

There’s nothing worse than getting deep into a relationship and then suddenly realizing that you’ve made a poor choice. Before you get into a committed relationship with someone new, it’s important to avoid some of the common mistakes. One of the biggest mistakes people make is becoming a “dopamine dope.” In the early stages of…